Saturday, September 18, 2010

Do Attractive People Earn More?

After months of searching, I finally landed a job as a research analyst in a BPO/KPO at Ayala, Makati. It was all very exciting and a whole new different ballgame for me. And because of that, I haven't had the time to do much blogging. 

And I was reminded of THIS: a feature story I wrote for my former college paper.

Read it here:
                                





Two women sit in a reception room. They patiently wait as the boss in his inner office finish studying their resumes.

One woman is plain-looking in her neat blouse and slacks, confident in her excellent experience and education. The other is pretty, all sweet and polished in a slick ruffled dress. When the intercom buzzes finally to reveal, “You’re hired”, who do you think gets the job?

Surprise, surprise. According to research, the prettier woman most likely gets it.

It’s called ‘Beauty Premium’.

It’s not fair that there are some people who were just born screaming out of the womb with perfect looks. They look cool in clothes and without. And we’re…well, maybe we should just keep our stretch marks to ourselves. It’s genetics; we can’t do anything about it.

“Good-looking men and women are generally judged to be more talented, kind, honest and intelligent than their less attractive counterparts,” says Dr. Gordon Patzer in an article for CareerBuilder.com. He spent more than three decades studying and writing about physical attractiveness.

“Controlled studies show people go out of their way to help attractive people of the same and opposite sex because they want to be liked and accepted by good-looking people,” Dr. Patzer added.

It seems that less attractive people have to prove themselves more capable, and better—a hard and ugly (excuse the pun) truth that may be too much to handle for people who looked like a gorilla with a bad hair day. Maybe when God rained down beauty to humans, most of us were carrying umbrellas.

Economic professors Daniel Hammermesh of the University of Texas and Jeff Biddle of Michigan State University have also found out that plain people earn 5 to 10 percent less than people with average looks, who in turn earn 3 to 8 percent less than those deemed good-looking.

There are those of us who are about to graduate in a few months and looking for a job is hard enough. But worrying if we won’t get that corner office because of the way we look, well… that’s harder.

“Looks do count,” agrees Ralph Revelar Sarza, 20, a Bicol University graduate. “Good-looking people get paid more. People react more to them.”

But it’s not just on looks though, height and weight matter too. If you’re taller, you get an added edge. According to two professors from universities in Florida and North Carolina, tall people acquire considerably more money in their careers than their shorter co-workers.

And if you’re one to enjoy 3 extra rice, chocolate cake and ice cream desserts, and large breakfast fries, you may want to rethink that. A London Guildhall study on beauty premium explains that people who are overweight will probably be unemployed.

This is from an online article by Kathleen Hauser: “Certain characteristics have been found to be more sought after by employers than others. Among women, obesity is the most limiting physical trait when it comes to employment opportunities and wages. Studies conducted in 1981 and 1988 found that women who were obese earned up to 17 percent less than their slimmer counterparts. For men, height is the most valued trait, with research showing an 18 percent increase in pay for every inch of height above the national average.”

Unfortunately, that’s not all. Studies also show that prettier and handsomer students get a lot more attention and good evaluation from their teachers. Doctors will provide more personalized care to good-looking patients, and attractive convicts receive lighter sentences than his butt-ugly fellow murderers, thieves, druggies and rapists.

All these facts almost make us average people book an appointment to the nearest upscale salon to work up some magic. Maybe even sign up to those makeover reality shows on TV.

Believe it or not, there were average people who actually called up a lawyer to file a suit for “Ugly Discrimination”—an entirely legal suit in the U.S. that is almost always a losing battle.

But there is hope yet. Despite all these facts and research, some of the most successful people are ordinary-looking people at best. I mean, look at TV host Mike Enriquez; behind his pockmarked face, colossal nose and disturbingly weird way of talking, everybody knows him and respects him; he gets paid well and a regular feature every night in our living rooms. Oprah Winfrey looks like an average black woman behind all the hair and makeup, but she has her own studio, magazine, talk show and all that.

“I don’t think good-looking people earn more,” says Joana Sodsod, 25. She once worked at a high-end cosmetics store. “It’s more on the person’s ability. At work, it’s not always about looks. When I was employed at a cosmetics store, height doesn’t matter—we were all given a chance.”

Confidence can be all you need. As long as you know you can do your job better and doesn’t have to apologize for it, you’ll be walking tall. A confident outlook makes you feel good about yourself, and when you feel good you’ll look good. “When beautiful people are not pulling their weight, their looks count against them and it is the unattractive who come out winners,” this from Beth Hale of Mail Online.

Adding to these facts, Roshawn Watson, Pharm. D says that 20 percent of attractiveness is confidence. “Better looks do not translate to better productivity,” she explained. “Appearances may get you into the door but productivity will decide whether you stay.”

So how do you beat this beauty premium?

Career advice blogger Penelope Trunk advises job seekers to dress to impress—a neat, organized physical appearance that is in line with contemporary standards can go a long way towards impressing potential employers.”

Another tip from Kathleen Hauser: “Improve your image. While physical traits such as beauty and stature may be beyond your grasp, the way you present yourself to employers and the rest of the world is absolutely within your control.”

She added: “Though a more attractive employee may initially make more money, if he or she cannot perform at the level of plainer-looking but better qualified workers, the benefits of beauty may be short-lived. An employee who is honest and confident in his or her own abilities is much more of an asset than one who intends to float by solely on the merit of good looks. A confident, well-qualified, and well-presented employee is truly an asset to be sought after.”

And that sound you hear is a multitude of average-looking people around the world sighing with relief. Comforted. ■

(I just have to put Ugly Betty in this post. She looks cute here. lol) XD



Monday, September 13, 2010

This Ghost and Roaches

I hate cockroaches. I absolutely refuse to believe they’re God-made.

I mean, really, look at them.

             

Uhh…not that. 

This ONE!

          

I mean what are they here for? What’s their purpose in God’s green earth besides creeping around all the over the place and looking gross?

Can they cure cancer?

Are they ugly-ass Tinkerbells that possess magic dust that helps children fly when they think happy thoughts?

I don’t think so!

So, when one of these despicable creatures decided to play Creep-on-Jay’s-Neck-While-He’s-Sleeping this morning, I introduced it very thoroughly to Mr. Flip-Flop.

Oh-kaay. It was 6am and I was minding my own dreamy business when I heard this disturbing whizz of gossamer wings and felt little legs tickling my neck.

I woke up very quickly after that, slapping at my neck and jumping out my bed. Just in time, a small brown creature I recognized very well scurried under my desk.

Omigod. A fuckin’ cockroach just crept all over me like I was a runway and it was fuckin’ Heidi Klum! And it wasn’t even wearing sexy VS lingerie! WTF!

I did a sort of bunny hop as I took a minute to imagine how long the roach has been doing it.

My lips curled, “Euww!” I immediately reached for one of my flip-flops, morphing into the terror that was Jay, Roach Killer.

It was time for the brown abomination to meet its Maker, which is definitely not God. Hah!

What happened afterwards was a flurry of flipped-out bed sheets, knocked-down book shelves, overturned chairs and the constant slap-slap of a flip-flop missing its target. I chased it under the bed, reached out for it when it tried to fly across the room.

I didn’t know how it got inside in the first place. My door’s always closed and we have screens in all our bedroom windows. I decided to think about that later. I still have to kill it. It was clever; it was fast and has the advantage of flight.

It would fly too close to my face, as if it was taunting me. 

But finally, it made a mistake. It hurried straight under the desk again, wedging itself into a corner. I gave a triumphant yell and brought down my rubber weapon.

SLAP!

Still wiggling its creepy legs.

SLAP! SLAP!

White ooze leaked out of its body.

I waited a moment. It didn’t move. I waited again, but it still didn’t give any signs of life.

Hell yeah! I pumped my fist into the air.

Ding Dong, the roach is dead.

The roach is dead as a doornail.

The roach is now swimming with the fishes. Sorta. :D

I gingerly nudged the roach with my now flip-flopped clad foot and kicked it out of my room. Then I went down the stairs and doused my neck with antiseptic.

I climbed up the stairs again and checked out the dead roach.

It was gone like poof. I looked around for it but to no avail. The smart fucker was gone!

FFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUU!

The battle is still on as I write this. XD

While I anticipate our final showdown, here’re some facts about cockroaches:
  • Cockroach excrement and body parts are major allergens in house dust.
  • In some parts of the world, roaches are profitably raised for chicken feed. (I’ll have to examine my next Jollibee chicken meal)
  • The world’s largest roach (which lives in South America) is four inches long with a seven-inch wingspan. (as long as it stays in South America, we got no problem)
  • The record for eating live cockroaches is held by Ken Edwards of Derbyshire, England.  In 2001 he ate 36 hissing Madagascar roaches in one minute. (I admire and pity this guy at the same time)
  • The favourite food of the cockroach is actually the glue on envelopes, the glue bindings at the backs of books and the glue on the back of postage stamps.
  • A cockroach can hold it’s breath for up to 40 minutes.
  • Some female cockroaches mate once and are pregnant for the rest of their lives. (aren’t we lucky human females don’t breed like them)
  • Cockroaches can live for up to a month, without its head. (which makes it easier to flip-flop them to death)
  • Ever wondered what the supposed purpose of having cockroaches on the planet at all is? Well try this handy example of a coackroaches supposed usefulness: Crushed cockroaches can be applied to a stinging wound to help relieve the pain. (I’ll try this tip  right after I slit my throat)

                

(Not if I do something about it) XD

Sources herehere and here and here.

‘Til  next time!

—This Ghost

Monday, September 6, 2010

This Ghost and Day Challenges #2



Tut-tut! It’s another one of This Ghost’s Day Challenges, where I randomly choose one interesting topic from 4 different Tumblr challenges.

This is beauty pageant season and if you don’t already know it, Ma. Venus Raj— our own Ms. Philippines— came 4th-runner up at the Miss Universe 2010. Don’t fret, guys, THAT’S still one helluva honor to get. I don’t even mind all the, “Major, Major” stuff flying all over the place. Actually, that trend’s pretty catchy. :D

Anyways, since we’re all about the beautiful girls strutting their stuff onstage, with today’s post, I’m gonna show you not-so-beautiful guys making fools of themselves in front of a big-ass crowd.

Unfortunately, I was one of those fools. Freak. XD

Here goes.



#2.  Photo/s That Make/s You Laugh


This photo makes me laugh alright; coupled with embarrassment.

This was taken last February during the 3-day CAL Congress 2010 back in my college senior year.  My friends and I were invited to join in on what seemed like a fun way to spend our few remaining weeks as collegians. So we were like, “What the heck; let’s sign up”. 

And then THIS happened.

The horror that was Ms. Earthquake.

Okaay, so Kuya Nap, one of the organizers already told us about this particular event in the Congress but I never really took it seriously. I mean, what are the chances of me being one of those guys pushed into wearing a dress?

That only happens to poor suckers.
                       

Seriously.

So we were like in the activity hall, already placed into groups. When they announced about the pageant, where each group had to have a guy to represent them, all my groupmates turned to look at me.

I stared back at them, feeling a bit of a dread. “What?”

“Ikaw na lang, kuya,” one girl said. And the others nodded in agreement.

I tried to get out of it by flirtatiously tucking my longish hair under my ear. Gays weren’t allowed to enter the competition.

“I don’t think so,” another girl told me. And that was it. 

What happened after was, “What the fuck?!”

They slapped some make-up on me, made me wear couture out of red curtains, held it in place with a belt and with a finishing touch, balled some socks and stuffed it on my chest for some very firm fake tits.

I was relieved there was no swimsuit competition. I draw the line on tucking my jewels with masking tape.


That’s me with the other candidates. I was already nicknamed, “Rubi” then.


The next week, a Monday morning (the Congress happened on a weekend), I was walking around Bicol University with my usual backpack slung over my shoulder, on my way to my boarding haouse. I live in Sorsogon but I board a room in a house inside the university. I go home for the weekend and then I stay in the boarding house on school days. 

Okay, so I was walking around, thinking the guys from school who’d watched the event probably got over it.

I figured it was back to normal for me.

And then…

Seven feet from my lodgings, a group of girls wearing our college uniform got out of Delgado’s— this canteen my landlord owns—and glanced at me briefly.

Did a double-take. Stared at me again, their eyes widening.

“Si Rubi!” they cried, and then they burst into laughter.

Enough said.


After the event. :D

What I Learned from the Ms. Earthquake pageant:

1. They said I look good in a gown with fake tits.  (I don’t know what to make of that. Thanks, I guess. :D)

2. It was hard acting like a girl and wearing all the girly stuff. I’m never gonna stare at a skirt the same way again.

3. I suck at question and answer.

4. I’m not gonna do it again but the pageant was actually a very different but fun experience.

5. I’m glad I was born a guy. :D


‘Til next time!

— This Ghost

Friday, September 3, 2010

This Ghost and Chocolates

(After the hostage-taking incident that has taken over the news all day and night, I’m in dire need of some big-ass endorphins— C.H.O.C.O.L.A.T.E.!) 

Do you find yourself sneaking to the fridge at 3am just for a bite of dark, guilty goodness?
Be guilty no more. Here’s one more reason to love chocolate: it just steals your heart, in a totally healthy way!
                                  
Us Filipinos have always had a long-standing love affair with chocolate. What’s not to love about it? Chocolate is a luxe.

 We can never say no to it.  From the simpler chocnut and almond-filled chocolate bars to the heavenly Godiva brand, chocolate is a treat always included in our dining palette.

Our weakness for it probably dates back two thousand years ago, when the Mayans and Aztecs developed a bitter drink from the fruit of the cacao tree. In fact, the word ‘chocolate’ which translates to ‘nahuatl’ in Aztec means ‘bitter water’. Cacao beans are also very valuable and in Aztec culture they were used extensively in trade.

Another historic fact—it is believed that chocolate plays an important role in the worship of the Aztec goddess of fertility, Xochiquetzal. So every time we consume every sweet, creamy piece of that chocolate bar, we should probably give a tip of the hat to the ancients who invented it.

Now besides the fact that it is an awesome dessert, chocolate is also well-known for its health benefits; the darker the chocolate, the less it contains sugar and fat.

According to Mark Stibich, Ph.D, chocolate is made of plants; therefore it has many of its health advantages. One of those advantages is flavanoids, which act as antioxidants. Antioxidants protect the body from aging caused by free radicals, which can cause damage that can lead to heart disease. Flavanoids too help relax blood pressure and balance certain hormones in the body.

A small bar of chocolate everyday is good for the heart, as it keeps the heart and cardiovascular system into running well. It lowers blood pressure and cholesterol. Studies show that it reduces LDL (the bad cholesterol) by up to 10 percent.

You may ask, doesn’t chocolate have lots of fat in it? Here’s the good news: some fats in chocolate does not affect your cholesterol level. The fats in chocolate are 1/3 oleic acid, 1/3 stearic acid and 1/3 palmitic acid. That means only 1/3 of the fat in dark chocolate is bad for you.

Apart from protecting your heart, chocolate also holds other benefits. It tastes oh-so good; it stimulates endorphin production, which gives a feeling of pleasure; it contains serotonin, which acts as an anti-depressant; and it contains theobromine, caffeine and other substances which are stimulants.

But that still doesn’t mean you should eat pounds of it every day. Excessive consumption of chocolate is still unhealthy. It is still a high-calorie, high-fat food. Most of the studies done used no more than 100 grams, or about 3.5 ounces of dark chocolate a day to get the benefits.

Mr. Stibich has the following tips:

Taste the Chocolate. Chocolate is a complex food with over 300 compounds and chemicals in each bite. To really enjoy and appreciate chocolate, take the time to taste it. Professional chocolate tasters have developed a system for tasting chocolate that include assessing the appearance, smell, feel and taste of each piece.

Go for Dark Chocolate. Dark chocolate has far more antioxidants than milk or white chocolate. These other two chocolates cannot make any health claims. Dark chocolate has 65 percent or higher cocoa content.

Skip the Nougat. You should look for pure dark chocolate or dark chocolate with nuts, orange peel or other flavorings. Avoid anything with caramel, nougat or other fillings. These fillings are just adding sugar and fat which erase many of the benefits you get from eating the chocolate.

Avoid Milk. It may taste good but some research shows that washing your chocolate down with a glass of milk could prevent the antioxidants being absorbed or used by your body.

Bet you don’t feel so guilty anymore. Racing to the nearest chocolate store? Have a happy, healthy chocolate fix! ■
Info source here.

— written by This Ghost